I give you an outline of my process and an introduction as to how to integrate it into your practice now.
Why do I want to offer this process?
The reason I want to share it is because I went through my own divorce and it was a typical adversarial divorce – leave no stone unturned and no damage undone.
I don't want that for you or for your clients or for the world.
So I've spent the last 35 years merging IFS therapy, Internal Family Systems therapy with my training in mediation, in law, and the Chopra Center’s higher consciousness and creating this process that I want to give to you.
How can I give this to you?
When I say give it to you, that's what I want to do.
I want to certify you – if you'd like to be certified – and give you my templates, my outlines, my scripts, my meditations, my contracts.
You can take this process and use it in your practice now, and then take it with you wherever you want to go in the world with it.
You can add more expertise, more impact, and more income to your life using this process.
Please learn more and share this opportunity.
I you're a therapist or if you know, a coach or mediator, attorney, clergy who could use this information, please share it because I'm ready to go.
I'd love for you to be part of it.
If you've already received the roadmap, we'll talk about it and see if this is a fit for you.
I'd love to get to know you and see how Compassionate Mediation can enhance your practice now, either in person or online.
Here’s how Compassionate Mediation helps.
I just need to tell you about someone who called me recently.
Her husband wants a divorce and she doesn't.
He's taking her to mediation and he's filed and she's all distraught.
If you knew how to use Compassionate Mediation, you could help them both navigate this time.
Because sometimes talking about an ending – with what it would mean to give up children's custody some of the time and part with your money and divide the household.
And at the same time, you help them learn how to compassionately communicate – meaning they let go of limiting beliefs as they connect to their highest and best SELF. They unburden pain from the past and they relate from their heart.
When they do that, they can share empathy with each other in ways that they never have before.
Please join me in the Compassionate Mediation process –the introduction, the certification.
Let me give you the benefit of all my years of experience, both personally and professionally,
I look forward to staying connected.
I would love to chat with you to discuss the possibility of working together to share this process so that you can increase you expertise, impact and income…
….. and together we can help change the face of divorce, and conflict in general, one heart at a time.
I am happy to announce that I am starting a certification program for therapists and coaches, and also mediators, attorneys, clergy, counselors, to help people communicate better and to resolve their differences.
Over 30 years ago, I combined my degrees in therapy, mediation and law.
I've taken courses at the Chopra center. I'm a meditation teacher, yoga teacher and Aryuveda teacher.
I combine the psychological and spiritual, the legal and financial information that I want to give to you so that you can give it to your clients.
Together we can help change the face of divorce and conflict in general, one heart at a time.
I'd love to give you the benefit of my 35 years of degrees and experience to let you take this process of Compassionate Mediation, wherever you are in the world and use it to help your clients.
So please, you can check out that page, Linda kroll.com/certify and get all the details.
And if you're a therapist or a coach, you can get up to 40 hours of continuing education credits.
My course is approved by the National Board of Certified Counselors and by the International Coach Federation.
Please let me share all I've attained over the last 35 years and give it to you and let me email@example.com. If you have any questions, if you want to talk to me personally and find out if it's a fit
I have the benefit of all of my scripts, templates, outlines, handouts contracts, and I'd like to share it with you. So please join me in the certification process.
Wouldn't it be nice if families could be peacefully and respectfully restructured,
I want to offer you the skill set that I've developed based on ifs therapy, based on higher consciousness, which includes the psychological and spiritual healing along with emotional and financial and legal support.
Do you ever wish you had tools for your couples in conflict?
I know there've been times when I was starting out. I used to watch my counseling sessions get hijacked by an angry participant. And until I learned how to practice the skills I want to share with you, I would often not know how to handle that angry participant, but with Compassionate Mediation, you help people connect with empathy and get to the pain and sadness underneath so that the anger dissipates.
Compassionate Mediation also helps you serve more clients because you become an expert in the field of conflict resolution. You offer a deeper healing and transformation and you have a unique skillset.
If your clients are considering a divorce, you know the information to share with them.
It doesn't mean you have to be a lawyer or a mediator. It means you have to know enough to talk about the issues that they need to resolve to move forward.
There are many times when people are in individual counseling or couples counseling and one, or both have thought about what would a divorce look like.
But they don't even want to talk about it because they're scared if they do it makes it too real.
Compassionate Mediation lets you talk about everything, including what a possible ending would look like so that they can create a new beginning.
Not long ago I was facing the possibility of ending my marriage. I vacillated for years, thinking that my indecision was benefiting my children because our family was still “intact.”
I didn’t have the tools to effectively communicate all that I truly wanted and needed. My husband and I did our best, but when we finally made our decision, we gave in to some of the typical adversarial divorce processes – court, attorneys, hurt, anger, sadness, pain.
Our daughters watched the proceedings, trying not to take sides and feeling caught in the middle. Their sorrow from the reflected sadness and anger of each of us definitely impacted them, and probably still does. The process went on for years, and we all suffered.
One day, as I sat in the courtroom with the man I once loved enough to promise to love forever.
I realized there had to be a better way to get divorced – or a better way to create a new and better marriage.
What I quickly discovered is working with couples is that people often give up too soon. They don’t know how to communicate with compassion and confidence, and they throw in the towel because it seems easier than staying and facing all the issues that divide them.
It’s hard work to get divorced, and the effects of it linger for lifetimes. It’s often a time of personal reflection and can be a time for spiritual growth. I’ve realized that if an individual or couple is willing to put as much energy in their own personal transformation before they get divorced, there would be many more happy intact families.
If even one member of a couple is willing to bring their higher self into their relationship, let go of the judgments they have formed about the other, heal the pain from the past, and relate from their heart, miracles happen.
They could talk about all the issues that cause conflict or pain and create a new relationship together – whether they decide to stay or go. I was able to help my clients avoid the pain and suffering my family had endured.
I put together all the education I had acquired…
As a therapist, mediator, attorney, teacher of meditation, yoga and Ayurveda, I created a process to help couples resolve conflict with higher consciousness and empathy.
I have worked one on one with clients for decades, and decided I wanted to create a program that could help people all over the world. My online course is ready now for the pubic, and I hope that you will join me in providing this process in your community.
I offer you all the information, guidance, and support I have created for my clients. You will have audios, videos, workbooks, templates, scripts and bonus materials that will provide a roadmap to lead you effortlessly in this process..
I’ll teach you the same program I’ve used to help hundreds of individuals and couples for over twenty-five years.
Imagine that in a short amount of time,
you will be able to learn all that you need to offer this system
to all your current and future clients.
If you are a therapist, mediator, attorney, coach or member of the clergy, this training is for you.
As an attorney, I didn’t like the whole adversarial process where there was a Pyrrhic victory at best – one major winner versus a major loser, with children always suffering, not matter the outcome.
As a mediator, I was frustrated watching warring couples continue their battles in my office without a meaningful way to intervene.
As a therapist, whose father was a manic-depressive who yelled a lot, I had trouble staying “in SELF” with angry clients, who reminded me of my dad and made me cower inside like a little girl, no matter how professional I tried to act.
I coached hundreds of individuals and clients to be more compassionate with themselves and each other, and gave workshops on letting go and moving on, even as I pushed myself to do more, and stayed separated for 9 years before my own divorce.
In all that time, I knew there had to be a better way to communicate and to heal relationships before, during and even after a divorce.
I have learned and practiced Internal Family Systems Therapy for almost 30 years. I was honored to learn from its founder, Richard Schwartz, Phd.
In his review of my book, Compassionate Mediation® for Relationships at a Crossroads: How to Add Passion to Your Marriage or Compassion to Your Divorce, Dick wrote: “Linda Kroll is a master at lifting couples out of their narrow protective perspective. They then learn the larger lessons from their relationships and proceed based on the best interests of all involved. This is relationship healing at its best.”
I also spent five years at the Chopra Center in California, where I studied with Deepak Chopra, David Simon, davidji, and Claire Diab, to become one of Chopra Center University’s 350 Master Teachers in the world.
I merged my legal training, mediation certification, IFS therapy, and spirituality to create the Compassionate Mediation® Process, which I would love to teach you so that together we can help change the face of divorce – one heart at a time.
I just offered a workshop at the IFS (Internal Family Systems) conference in Denver, and here is what some of the workshop participants had to say:
“Thanks so much. This gives me a roadmap and framework for helping couples navigate their decision making in a way that honors and empowers both parties.”
“Great material/program. I’m buying the book, Thank you for your generosity in sharing.”
“I especially enjoyed and found useful the role plays.”
“So much good stuff! Thank you.”
“Should I stay or should I go?” is a question clients ask themselves and may also ask you. As a therapist or coach, it can be challenging to know what subjects to cover and how to help them make SELF-led decisions in the highest good for all concerned.
You can tools offer information, guidance and support. Looking at an ending can often lead to a new beginning.
Families need not be broken, but can peacefully and respectfully restructured.
Clients can be offered emotional and spiritual healing (along with financial and legal information) to help them add passion to their marriage or compassion to their divorce.
I look forward to connecting soon.
All my best,
P.S. I’ve been sharing this process for many years, and I’ll soon be 73! I’m looking for other therapists, mediators, attorneys, coaches and clergy to take this process to your clients so that together we can change the face of divorce – one heart at a time!
I hope you'll join me for the FREE ONLINE TRAINING that will allow you to have a better relationship whether you're:
unhappy and hopeful things will get better
unhappy and feeling stuck
whether you're separated
divorcing or even divorced.
I'm offering tools and tips live so that you can start 2019 and have a much better relationship.
And for those of you who are interested, you can stay on longer where I can tell you about my Compassionate Mediation® Program, which is a six-hour video course that offers everything that I provided my clients for the last 30 years.
I've helped thousands of individuals and couples either add passion to their marriage or compassion to their divorce.
I share all that I give to them in person in my office. I put all the information online in my Compassionate Mediaton® Program at my Compassionate Communication Academy.
I'm offering it to you — or for you to share with someone you know — so that together, we can help change the face of divorce one heart at a time.
So, please learn more and I look forward to staying connected and .
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