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I share my story of the struggles with my divorce. I hope to help you create a new and better relationship  — together or apart.

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I want to invite you to do is to reach out, to reach out for help, to reach out to me, to reach out to a counselor because my hope is that Compassionate Mediation becomes a new paradigm for conflict resolution,

I hope that people all over the world will have access to these tools so they can implement them when there is a convict.

I mean, eventually I hope they teach it in schools and on playgrounds and in boardrooms and in politics so that, we can all bring higher self-awareness into conscious conflict resolution.

I was joyfully married to my college sweetheart, and about 20 years into the marriage with two wonderful daughters, we were looking at a divorce, sadly, and we didn't have these tools.

So unfortunately, we struggled for a long time. We stayed separated for a very long time.

And during that time I thought I was being helpful to my family because we weren't really divorced yet. But the ambivalence was really difficult. We both were dating other people. It was a very confusing, very long time

And I remember there was one time we were, had a status call in court and I sat in the courtroom and my beloved soon-to-be ex-husband was sitting on the other side of the room.

And I remembered thinking back that this was the man I married. This was the man that was there from when our children were born. This is the other grandfather to our three wonderful grandchildren.

And this is not how it's supposed to be. There has to be a better way to do this.

And I remember sitting in the courtroom and I as woo woo as it sounds, I just remember visioning some pink light coming down, some light from God, the heavens to say, we can sit in compassion.

We can know that there's a higher purpose, that we've come to this moment, and we don't have to go the typical route to get divorced.

And in that time, I sent compassion in his direction and we did resolve it. And it had its ups and downs.

So even if both parties aren't aware of this process, you can align your heart with the intention that you are going to bring consciousness, higher self, calm, compassion into this process. And everybody can benefit.

Even if your partner is upset, it's one of you that's upset at family gatherings, not both of you. Your children aren't necessarily in the middle. And over time, that compassion can forge a whole new bond that your family can marinate in, in whatever form it takes.

I wrote the book to help you –  Compassionate Mediation® for Relationships at a Crossroad: How to Add Passion to Your Marriage or Compassion to Your Divorce.


You can heal and transform your relationship from your highest and best SELF for the benefit of all concerned. You can learn more and find healing with my Compassionate Mediation Program available now.

Compassionate Mediation® is a transformational process of conflict resolution that will help you add passion to your marriage or compassion to your divorce. .

If you are a professional – therapist, mediator, attorney, coach, counselor or clergy – who wants to learn how to offer this process to your clients, please get your FREE Roadmap and Video HERE.

Let’s Chat

Let’s Chat

If you are a therapist who works with individuals or couples in conflict, I'd like to take a few moments and talk to you about Compassionate Mediation®.

What is Compassionate Mediation?

Compassionate mediation is more than marriage counseling. It's more than divorce counseling. It's a hybrid of both.

It allows your clients to talk about every issue that they may have to conside iIf either one has thought about leaving. ,

It helps you foster discussions to bring more awareness, compassion, mindfulness,  and SELF energy into those conversations. 

I want to offer you my process of Compassionate Mediation. 

My name is Linda Kroll, and I wrote the book Compassionate Mediation for Relationships at a Crossroads: How to Add Passion to Your Marriage or Compassion to Your Diivorce.

And for over 30 years, I have been working with individuals and couples in conflict – providing individual counseling, couples counseling, and divorce mediation. 

I put together my degrees in law, mediation, and  therapy, and I’m also a Chopra certified teacher of meditation, yoga and Ayurveda.

I bring the spiritual, the emotional, the financial, and the legal healing and guidance and support into one program. 

And I want to share it with you.

 I have a Roadmap, 

I give you an outline of my process and an introduction as to how to integrate it into your practice now.

Why do I want to offer this process?

The reason I want to share it is because I went through my own divorce and it was a typical adversarial divorce – leave no stone unturned and no damage undone. 

I don't want that for you or for your clients or for the world. 

So I've spent the last 35 years merging IFS therapy, Internal Family Systems therapy with my training in mediation, in law, and the Chopra Center’s  higher consciousness and creating this process that I want to give to you.

How can I give this to you?

When I say give it to you, that's what I want to do. 

I want to certify you – if you'd like to be certified – and give you my templates, my outlines, my scripts, my meditations, my contracts.

You can take this process and use it in your practice now, and then take it with you wherever you want to go in the world with it.

You can add more expertise, more impact, and more income to your life using this process.

Please learn more and share this opportunity.

I you're a therapist or if you know, a coach or mediator, attorney, clergy who could use this information, please share it because I'm ready to go.

 I'd love for you to be part of it. 

If you've already received the roadmap, we'll talk about it and see if this is a fit for you.

I'd love to get to know you and see how Compassionate Mediation can enhance your practice now, either in person or online.

Here’s how Compassionate Mediation helps.

I just need to tell you about someone who called me recently.

Her husband wants a divorce and she doesn't. 

He's taking her to mediation and he's filed and she's all distraught. 

If you knew how to use Compassionate Mediation, you could help them both navigate this time. 

Because sometimes talking about an ending – with what it would mean to give up children's custody some of the time and part with your money and divide the household. 

And at the same time, you help them learn how to compassionately communicate – meaning they let go of limiting beliefs as they connect to their highest and best SELF. They unburden pain from the past and they relate from their heart. 

When they do that, they can share empathy with each other in ways that they never have before.

Please join me in the Compassionate Mediation process –the introduction, the certification.

Let me give you the benefit of all my years of experience, both personally and professionally, 

I look forward to staying connected.

I would love to chat with you to discuss the possibility of working together to share this process so that you can increase you expertise, impact and income…

….. and together we can help change the face of divorce, and conflict in general, one heart at a time.

To find a time to chat for 15 minutes, please pick a time HERE.

Here's how Compassionate Mediation®
can help your clients explore all their options:

Free Roadmap for You

Free Roadmap for You

In these difficult times, relationships are strained to their limits.

In the past 30 years, as a therapist, mediator attorney, I have created a process for helping individuals and couples to add passion to their marriage or compassion to their divorce. 

It's called the Compassionate Mediation® Program. 

I‘d like to give you the Roadmap so that you can use it with your clients now.

You can use it in person. You can use it online,

And you could offer healing and transformation when the world needs it the most. 

Please get your FREE Roadmap and the Video short introduction, and we'll stay connected.

There are many more tools that I want to offer you. 

From my heart to yours, please take advantage of the 30 years of experience I've had as an IFS (Internal Family Systems therapist, mediator, attorney, Chopra certified teacher of meditation, Ayurveda and yoga.

I put it all together in one program, and I'm offering it to you. 

Please join me. And I look forward to staying connected. 

You can get your FREE ROADMAP and VIDEO HERE!



I am happy to announce that I am starting a certification program for therapists and coaches, and also mediators, attorneys, clergy, counselors, to help people communicate better and to resolve their differences.

 Over 30 years ago, I combined my degrees in therapy, mediation and law.

I've taken courses at the Chopra center. I'm a meditation teacher, yoga teacher and Aryuveda teacher. 

I combine the psychological and spiritual, the legal and financial information that I want to give to you so that you can give it to your clients.

Together we can help change the face of divorce and conflict in general, one heart at a time. 

 I'd love to give you the benefit of my 35 years of degrees and experience to let you take this process of Compassionate Mediation, wherever you are in the world and use it to help your clients.

 So please, you can check out that page, Linda and get all the details.

And if you're a therapist or a coach, you can get up to 40 hours of continuing education credits.

My course is approved by the National Board of Certified Counselors and by the International Coach Federation. 

Please let me share all I've attained over the last 35 years and give it to you and let me If you have any questions, if you want to talk to me personally and find out if it's a fit

I have the benefit of all of my scripts, templates, outlines, handouts contracts, and I'd like to share it with you. So please join me in the certification process. 

Wouldn't it be nice if families could be peacefully and respectfully restructured,

 I want to offer you the skill set that I've developed based on ifs therapy, based on higher consciousness, which includes the psychological and spiritual healing along with emotional and financial and legal support.

Do you ever wish you had tools for your couples in conflict?

 I know there've been times when I was starting out. I used to watch my counseling sessions get hijacked by an angry participant. And until I learned how to practice the skills I want to share with you, I would often not know how to handle that angry participant, but with Compassionate Mediation, you help people connect with empathy and get to the pain and sadness underneath so that the anger dissipates. 

Compassionate Mediation also helps you serve more clients because you become an expert in the field of conflict resolution. You offer a deeper healing and transformation and you have a unique skillset. 

If your clients are considering a divorce, you know the information to share with them.

It doesn't mean you have to be a lawyer or a mediator. It means you have to know enough to talk about the issues that they need to resolve to move forward.

There are many times when people are in individual counseling or couples counseling and one, or both have thought about what would a divorce look like. 

But they don't even want to talk about it because they're scared if they do it makes it too real. 

Compassionate Mediation lets you talk about everything, including what a possible ending would look like so that they can create a new beginning.

Find out more, and I look forward to staying connected.

Compassionate Mediation® Book

Compassionate Mediation® Book

For over 20 years, as a therapist, mediator and attorney, I have worked with thousands of individuals and couples who want to improve (or leave) their relationships. My heart goes out to each one of them. Often, I wish I had been able to help them years before our first visit, because they could have avoided the pain, anger or sadness that had affected their lives.

I can only see a limited number of clients in person each week, and my hope is to reach people everywhere with a message of self love, hope, possibility and happiness.

My goal in creating this course is to share what I have been doing for decades so that people all over the world could learn the skills of Compassionate Communication. You can learn how to heal the pain from your past, let go of limiting beliefs, connect to your spiritual source and relate from your highest and best SELF.

It’s no secret that half of all first marriages end in divorce. But it may be surprising to learn that the failure rates for second and third failed marriages get even worse: 67 and 73 percent, respectively, according to a 2012 article in Psychology Today, “The High Failure Rate of Second and Third Marriages.”

But what about the statistics on married people who are “thinking” about divorce?

Researchers estimate that 1 in 3 divorced couples try to reconcile later, according to a paper written by a noted marriage scholar and therapist. Also, a significant number of divorced individuals—about half—say they wished they or their spouse had tried harder to save the marriage.

In other words, divorce is all too common, and there’s a lot of regret out there. It’s these people—the ones at a crossroads of their marriage—that represent the primary market for this book, as well as those struggling with challenges in their marriage and seeking to make their union healthier, richer, deeper. 

Compassionate Mediation for Relationships at a Crossroads will show you how to become more conscious of your own behaviors as you better understand yourself and your partner, and create something new, together.

I’ll share with you the secrets to becoming more empathetic and considerate. You’ll finally be able to talk about every subject with clarity and courage, including finances, parenting, responsibilities, extended family, and sex. You’ll learn how to ask for and get your needs met as you lower your “walls,” change the “filters” through which you see yourself and your partner, and forgive yourself and each other. You’ll remember how to be grateful again for what you do have, and learn how to reflect the attention, affection, appreciation, and acceptance you both desire.

The world needs to be a safer place for marriage and divorce. Children should be shielded from the shrapnel of their parents’ animosity. This book will offer a new paradigm for couples at a crossroads. I believe that families need not be “broken,” but can be peacefully, and respectfully, restructured.

This book will give individuals and couples the roadmap they need—whether they choose to put passion into saving their marriage, or compassion into getting a divorce. As a therapist, mediator, attorney, and Chopra-certified Vedic Master, I’ve successfully applied this approach to thousands of couples in my twenty years of private practice.

Couples no longer have to spend years “on the fence” in an unhappy, dysfunctional relationship. Through this book, readers will learn how to set healthy boundaries, as well as how to ask for what they truly want and need (even if it means they can only give it to themselves!) Compassionate Mediation is about helping couples get “unstuck” and clearer so they can move forward—whether that means reviving their marriage and starting anew—or ending the relationship with compassion for both their sakes.

In-between the weeping, beauty abounds: my story

I once was where you are now, and it’s a painful, lonely place. I discussed my situation with friends, family members, and loved ones, but in the end, no one could make the decision for me. There were moments when I was clear and determined, but more often, I was trapped in a state of limbo, unable to leave but unhappy in the marriage. Because I’ve experienced divorce firsthand, I have much to share about what to do—and what NOT to do.

For years, I asked myself, “Should I stay or should I go?”

In the decade it took me to finally decide, I had spun my indecision, vacillation, and heartache into gold—the kind of gold you can only mine from experience. I took the pain of my own failings and missteps, and turned them into lessons learned and methods developed that are now helping others succeed.

As I struggled with my own marriage and emotions, I returned to school to study psychotherapy, earning my second graduate degree and becoming a licensed clinical professional counselor, as well as a mediator and attorney. Surely, I thought, as a lawyer, mediator, and therapist, I could get us through our divorce as smoothly and painlessly as possible. But trying to mediate your own divorce is like trying to deliver your own baby. Sure, it may be remotely possible, but ultimately, it’s way too difficult. I tried to make our divorce “picture perfect,” until I realized: codependence isn’t the same thing as compassion, and that yes, LOVE is the answer, but it starts with loving your SELF.

During my journey of self-discovery and healing, I became the oldest Vedic Master trained by Deepak Chopra, David Simon, and Davidji at the Chopra Center University (the trifecta of certifications). I used to say I got my Medicare card in May and my Vedic Master card in June.

I’ve always believed that our struggles are part of our dharma or purpose. We can only offer wisdom to others by healing ourselves. I’ve learned through the years that being open and vulnerable with others, that sharing from the heart is more powerful medicine than ten degrees or theories. Hard-earned wisdom has finally surpassed my education, and I want to share it all.

It’s the mistakes I made along the way that may help you the most.

This book will lead you through the steps you need to take so you can resolve your issues for the highest good of all concerned. Love is the answer, and it starts with loving your SELF.

Through the art of Compassionate Mediation, you’ll learn how to heal burdens from your past, let go of limiting beliefs, connect to your Spiritual Source, and relate from your highest and best SELF.

So instead of asking the question “Should I stay or should I go?” you’ll now consider, “How can I bring my best SELF to this relationship and transform it from the inside out?”

"I’ve experienced significant improvements in my relationship with my husband and children."


"I learned there could be a Compassionate Divorce."


“We’re building an entirely new marriage.”


“Linda guided us mindfully through the impact of divorce."


“I came to Linda seeking mediated divorce documents and came out with nothing but peace and hope."


“I am breaking free from destructive patterns.”


“Linda helped me love all ‘Parts’ of my SELF!”


“With Linda’s caring guidance, I moved forward with peace and strength.”


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