Linda’s Suggestions for Talking with Your Children about Your Separation or Divorce Choose a time to tell the children when you can be together. If you have children of various ages, you may tell them at different times as your conversations not be the same. Whether you tell all the children at the same time,… Continue reading Talking to Your Children
Category: Compassionate SELF-Led Divorce®
Plea for Peace
A Heartfelt Plea for Peace Countless couples play out their emotional dramas without regard to the collateral damage they inflict on their innocent and loving children. Two people who once cared enough to promise to love and cherish “until death do them part” can also learn to fear and despise each other after years of… Continue reading Plea for Peace
The Girl with the “D”
There once was a lady who thought she was crazy Her life seemed so dreadful and horrid. Her head in a whirl, instead of a curl, Was a “D” in the middle of her forehead. Her work load oppressive, obligations excessive, Her life felt just out of control. She drove into trees, lost her wallet… Continue reading The Girl with the “D”
Linda’s Settlement Intentions
(I wrote this in the form of a prayer and gave to to my husband and our attorneys on the day we were in court to finalize our divorce after 30 years of marriage. It set the tone for the future I hoped to share, and I offer it to you to help with the… Continue reading Linda’s Settlement Intentions
Linda’s Settlement Prayer
I pray for a peaceful and respectful settlement meeting, in which all parties come together from their Highest Selves and their truest connection to Your guidance, wisdom and love. I pray that the parts of ourselves that are angry, fearful, defensive, revengeful, retributive, punitive, unloving, unforgiving, sad, young, abandoned, resentful, negative, hurting and hurtful –… Continue reading Linda’s Settlement Prayer