During this time of stress and uncertainty, relationships can be strained to their limits.
I want to share with you my proven transformational process for relationship healing – Compassionate Mediation®
I’ll provide you with methods, strategies, and handouts I’ve used successfully with thousands of individuals and couples for over 35 years.
As a therapist, mediator, attorney, and Chopra-Certified teacher of meditation, yoga, and Ayurveda, I have created a process that covers emotional and spiritual healing along with financial and legal information and support.
I am offering a FREE short VIDEO introduction along with a FREE step-by-step ROADMAP of the whole Compassionate Mediation® Coaching process — so you can see how much the information and materials provided can help you to better serve your clients.
You can increase your expertise, impact and income as you share these invaluable tools.
Compassionate Mediation® is NOT just for individuals or couples considering divorce. This process works with clients who aren’t worried about leaving, but want to improve their relationship with SELF-led communication.
Any relationship that needs healing or transformation will benefit — even if only one member of the relationship learns these skills.
Sometimes the willingness to consider what an ending may look like provides the impetus to create a new beginning together.
Families need not be broken, but can peacefully and respectfully restructured.
Together, we can improve relationships – and even change the face of divorce – one heart at a time.
It’s our first one in different dimensions. The last few you’ve been on a different continent in a different part of the world.
Now you are in Heaven, and I am here.
And still I feel your presence, like the praying mantis that landed on my shoulder in Jerry’s kitchen on the day we buried you in Israel.
I know you are watching, kvelling, advising, loving and protecting me.
I have your picture in my office, and when I video tape myself for the internet, your picture is on a table and you are looking over my right shoulder.
I know you are proud of me, and still think I spend too much time on my computer, but at least we have some buyers this week!
I know you are happy that I have a very good man living with me, devoted to me, caring for me, and I am no longer alone.
I know you are with our loved ones, free from your diminished body and mind, and fully present for them and for me.
I miss you, Mom, but I missed you more when you were alive but not here. That’s not true when I write it. I still could see you and tell you I loved you and have you smile at me sometimes.
I don’t think I’ve ever really processed the pain and fear and sadness and remorse and ultimate powerlessness I felt in the last two months of your life.
I abdicated control to Jerry and Israel, and I regretted deeply their lack of hospice.
I am so very sorry for all the suffering you endured in the name of trying to save you.
I know Jerry meant well, and Israel meant well, but I could see the suffering in your eyes, hear the moans that you made, and saw the look of “help me, save me, let me go” that was in your eyes for the 12 days I spend with you in January.
And when Dana called me in tears, or Healey or Erin, and we all knew that you wanted to be free of the pain, even as Jerry was fighting for your life, it was such an impossible time for all of us.
When I saw your lifeless face in the morgue, I could feel your soul’s presence in the corner of the room, letting me know that you were okay.
I couldn’t cry at your funeral, though I was present and grateful for all who showed up that day to join us as we said goodbye to you.
Jerry’s kids were all in tears, and when I read your eulogy, I was sorry I didn’t speak from my heart instead. But I knew you knew all I wanted to say.
The tears finally came when I said Yiskor with Jerry on the Friday night before shabbas – and before I left Israel to come home.
I loved being around that table of family, sitting in your seat, wishing you were still there.
But we had 97 years – or rather 72 years — together, and they were all wonderful. Truly Mom, you are the Best.
You were always a “little girl” at heart the baby of your family.
But you were also the biggest heart in ours.
Filled with unconditional love, non-judgment, and a capacity to forgive and forget that knew no limits.
You had unlimited hugs, scooches, back rubs, and for most of our lives, chicken soup.
You weathered Daddy’s storms, and continued on without him to forge a life for yourself filled with dates, gambling, shopping, Fox news, great outfits and the constant joy that just being with your family brought you.
You traveled to and from Israel and made it easy for us to ship you back and forth.
You never lost sight of what was going on in all of our lives, and you always had an encouraging word whenever it was needed.
You never missed an opportunity to comment on my hair.
This is my first Mother’s Day without you, Mom, and Jerry’s too.
But your best job of all was fostering the intense love and closeness that we feel as siblings. We drive each other crazy, but we each know home is in each other’s hearts.
You raised a magnificent son, Mom, All that coddling and ironing and supporting paid off. His heart is endless. And even though he has a bit more of Daddy’s volatility than I do (at least overtly), his nashooma is a direct reflection of the best of both of you.
So thanks for my brother, dearest Mother, and for his family that took you in in Israel, and has me and my kids surrounded by love.
Thank you for your legacy of love, Mom… for showing me how to mother and how to adore my progeny with complete devotion.
That’s what you did and still do.
I hope Jerry can feel your presence as I do. I do know you’re in Heaven watching out for both of us – for all of us.
Thank you, Mom, beyond all words…. for being you, and helping me be me.
I’m still a work in progress, but you hold the blueprint, and I keep trying to emulate what I felt from you all my life.
I’ll be grateful for the times I see my kids.
I won’t make them feel guilty for anything they do not do.
I will appreciate every moment, and celebrate family.
Thanks for all the wisdom, lessons, and life example.
I’ll do more to follow in your footsteps, and I know my children will thank me for it.
God bless you always, Dearest Mom, as he has blessed us with having you.
Give my love to all at the Table – and thank Daddy, too, for giving us life.
I’m very excited to start my program on Compassionate Mediation® Tools for Your Practice Now on soon.
It’s going to be a personalized group, in which I get to know you individually and I can offer my support over the next three months.
I hope you can jump in and join us — even if you’re on the fence — because there’s so much to gain and nothing to lose.
I created this process merging IFS with my background as a mediator and attorney, and Chopra Certified teacher of meditation, yoga, and Ayurveda.
The tools I share with you combine emotional and spiritual healing, along with legal and financial information. You can help your individual or couples clients to add passion to their marriage or compassion to their divorce and heal from the trauma of this pandemic.
There’s a no-risk money back guarantee, so if after the first session you think it’s not for you, I’ll give your money back. And in the meantime, you’ll get to keep all the bonuses that I’ve offered. (See below)
Compassionate Mediation® is not just for people who are thinking of divorce. It’s a process that you can use with an individual or a couple who is having conflict in their relationship. It gives you the tools to help you help them:
· be their best self
· foster a compassionate relationship with their partner now
· explore their options
· understand their rights and finances
· and then create a relationship they truly desire and deserve.
I merge IFS with higher consciousness and add in legal and financial information. If you are a therapist or coach, you can receive 5 Continuing Education Credits.
Here’s what you’ll receive:
3 Live 90 minute sessions on zoom
3 live Q&A sessions over the next 3 months
3 month in private Facebook group for mentoring and support.
5 Continuing Education Credits available for therapists and coaches
PLUS you get these bonuses just for signing up!
Initial Interview Template: I’m sure you have your own process, but this unique outline gives you the framework for knowing what to ask in what order to make immediate and deep connections to your clients, their parts, their partner’s parts, and their enhanced SELF-leadership. You get an in-depth overview and your clients get an immediate appreciation of SELF and Parts.
.Miracle of Empathy Handout: Your clients will feel compassion for their own feelings and also their partner’s. Using “I” messages and speaking “for” their exiles, their parts release the need to be defensive, blaming or judgmental. I have used this handout with my individual and couples clients to help foster a better connection, no matter what the future holds.
What Your Clients Should Know about Divorce Audio and E-book: My 30-minute Audio and E-book offer information for you and your clients. They include legal and financial information, available options for your clients, and how to provide counseling and support, along with a relaxation meditation.
Budget Form to Share: You can help your clients become more informed, clear and confident about their financial situation as they create a new relationship with respect.
And remember you have a No-Risk Money-back Guarantee!
(First Name), the LIVE course starts soon, and I would love to have you join me.
All my best,
Linda
P.S. Many of your colleagues will be joining this course. It’s a great opportunity to network and share your skills and expertise with others who can refer and support you.
We are starting the course on soon. Please join us!
Not long ago I was facing the possibility of ending my marriage. I vacillated for years, thinking that my indecision was benefiting my children because our family was still “intact.”
I didn’t have the tools to effectively communicate all that I truly wanted and needed. My husband and I did our best, but when we finally made our decision, we gave in to some of the typical adversarial divorce processes – court, attorneys, hurt, anger, sadness, pain.
Our daughters watched the proceedings, trying not to take sides and feeling caught in the middle. Their sorrow from the reflected sadness and anger of each of us definitely impacted them, and probably still does. The process went on for years, and we all suffered.
One day, as I sat in the courtroom with the man I once loved enough to promise to love forever.
I realized there had to be a better way to get divorced – or a better way to create a new and better marriage.
What I quickly discovered is working with couples is that people often give up too soon. They don’t know how to communicate with compassion and confidence, and they throw in the towel because it seems easier than staying and facing all the issues that divide them.
It’s hard work to get divorced, and the effects of it linger for lifetimes. It’s often a time of personal reflection and can be a time for spiritual growth. I’ve realized that if an individual or couple is willing to put as much energy in their own personal transformation before they get divorced, there would be many more happy intact families.
If even one member of a couple is willing to bring their higher self into their relationship, let go of the judgments they have formed about the other, heal the pain from the past, and relate from their heart, miracles happen.
They could talk about all the issues that cause conflict or pain and create a new relationship together – whether they decide to stay or go. I was able to help my clients avoid the pain and suffering my family had endured.
I put together all the education I had acquired…
As a therapist, mediator, attorney, teacher of meditation, yoga and Ayurveda, I created a process to help couples resolve conflict with higher consciousness and empathy.
I have worked one on one with clients for decades, and decided I wanted to create a program that could help people all over the world. My online course is ready now for the pubic, and I hope that you will join me in providing this process in your community.
I offer you all the information, guidance, and support I have created for my clients. You will have audios, videos, workbooks, templates, scripts and bonus materials that will provide a roadmap to lead you effortlessly in this process..
I’ll teach you the same program I’ve used to help hundreds of individuals and couples for over twenty-five years.
Imagine that in a short amount of time,
you will be able to learn all that you need to offer this system
to all your current and future clients.
If you are a therapist, mediator, attorney, coach or member of the clergy, this training is for you.
As an attorney, I didn’t like the whole adversarial process where there was a Pyrrhic victory at best – one major winner versus a major loser, with children always suffering, not matter the outcome.
As a mediator, I was frustrated watching warring couples continue their battles in my office without a meaningful way to intervene.
As a therapist, whose father was a manic-depressive who yelled a lot, I had trouble staying “in SELF” with angry clients, who reminded me of my dad and made me cower inside like a little girl, no matter how professional I tried to act.
I coached hundreds of individuals and clients to be more compassionate with themselves and each other, and gave workshops on letting go and moving on, even as I pushed myself to do more, and stayed separated for 9 years before my own divorce.
In all that time, I knew there had to be a better way to communicate and to heal relationships before, during and even after a divorce.
I have learned and practiced Internal Family Systems Therapy for almost 30 years. I was honored to learn from its founder, Richard Schwartz, Phd.
In his review of my book, Compassionate Mediation® for Relationships at a Crossroads: How to Add Passion to Your Marriage or Compassion to Your Divorce, Dick wrote: “Linda Kroll is a master at lifting couples out of their narrow protective perspective. They then learn the larger lessons from their relationships and proceed based on the best interests of all involved. This is relationship healing at its best.”
I also spent five years at the Chopra Center in California, where I studied with Deepak Chopra, David Simon, davidji, and Claire Diab, to become one of Chopra Center University’s 350 Master Teachers in the world.
I merged my legal training, mediation certification, IFS therapy, and spirituality to create the Compassionate Mediation® Process, which I would love to teach you so that together we can help change the face of divorce – one heart at a time.
