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No two relationships are alike.
If you take a moment to tell me about yours,
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make the changes you need now.
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You have many options. Things are not black and white. It is not a choice between status quo or Armageddon.
It’s not to stay where you are or implode your family.
There is a rainbow of options that you don’t understand yet, but you will.
As you start to learn how to communicate from your higher SELF and learn how to use the Miracle of Empathy, you can begin to talk about all the issues that you would have to talk about in a divorce.
In a divorce or a separation, you’re going have to talk about money, parenting, what you’re going todo with a house, etcetera.
You’re going to have to see if you need to get a job or not.
But when you are looking at all the possibilities, you can talk about them all without needing to end the relationship.
Because many times in a relationship, you’re locked in roles that you had many years ago that your parents had.
Sometimes the husband is the breadwinner and the wife stays at home and raises the children and he spends 15 or 20 years earning money. She feels neglected and he doesn’t know it. He’s ready to retire. She’s already been MIA, missing an action, because she’s felt so hurt for years and wasn’t able to share that.
Then they show up in my office ready to get divorced. He’s hopeful that she’ll love him and she’s ready to leave.
I tell the party that’s hopeful that they have to be willing to talk about what an ending would look like because the person that’s ready to leave isn’t ready to keep doing marriage counseling.
And I tell the person who wants to leave that they have to be willing to talk about the feelings because otherwise the person that’s still hopeful will sabotage any divorce proceedings.
And they could fight about it for two years before they were in a room talking about what they’re going talk about with me or with your counselor or with someone else who knows this process.
I wrote the book to help you – Compassionate Mediation® for Relationships at a Crossroad: How to Add Passion to Your Marriage or Compassion to Your Divorce.
Compassionate Mediation® is a transformational process of conflict resolution that will help you add passion to your marriage or compassion to your divorce. .
