I have a passion to make the world a safer place for marriage and divorce.
Of all the wars and illnesses, I wonder how many more casualties are attributed to the fall of a family. How many innocent bystanders are harmed by the decision of two people to terminate a marriage? How many generations pay the price of familial conflict?
I know there has to be a better way. I share it with my clients daily
I help individuals and couples a new way to communicate based on empathy and compassion. They can then use these skills to talk about all their issues including parenting, feelings, finances, and even sex.
We also discuss specific issues that would be addressed if they would make a decision to separate or divorce. Possible scenarios for property division, maintenance, child support and parenting are addressed as well as day-to-day decision-making. What to tell children, parents and friends, and how to navigate the grieving and healing are also discussed.
I integrate wisdom from many teachers to create a new paradigm for conflict resolution that includes legal, financial, emotional and spiritual healing.
I believe, “Families need not be broken, but can be peacefully and respectfully re-structured.”
The anger and resentment that typify divorce are factors of unresolved fears and sadness. When couples can learn how to speak their truth from Self, connected to their Highest Power (G-d, Buddha nature, inner truth), they can have compassion for themselves and each other in a way that allows for forgiveness, healing and personal growth.
I encourage SELF-Leadership by working to unburden the “Parts” of themselves that carry pain from their past. By finding and healing their inner child, they can move forward in life with more compassion, clarity, calm, confidence, creativity, connectedness and curiosity.
I also help clients learn how to access Self directly through meditation, prayer, journaling, therapy, support groups, and different theories of healing modalities that encourage a body-mind-spirit connection and wholeness.
I want to help people
- Learn how to compassionately communicate from their highest and best SELF
- Create a Compassionate Relationship – no matter what form it takes.
- Focus on healing pain from the past.
- Practice exquisite self care.
- Create a new and better relationship with their current partner OR
- Experience a better way to divorce that fosters personal and spiritual growth.
Bringing spiritual wisdom – acceptance, forgiveness, humility, responsibility, compassion, non-judgment — is liberating and life-enhancing to all members of a re-structured family.
The best gift you can give your children is to minimize conflict.
Learning to love and accept yourself with compassion allows you to be more compassionate with others.
Forgiveness helps you let go with love in a way that you can feel liberated, energized and free to live your life from your highest potential.
My book and online course will help:
- Individuals or couples considering divorce, going through a divorce or even post-divorce
- anyone is a relationship having conflict
- friends or relatives who want to offer this guidance to people who need it
- Grandparents who want to give it to their children considering divorce so that the feelings and needs of the grandchildren could become a priority.
The audience could give it to their spouses, their children, or anyone touched by divorce, to help them find the gifts in the experience.
The reader would feel the book was a “spiritual and emotional guidebook” written with them in mind to help them each step of the way.
It will benefit at least 50% of the total world’s population affected by divorce because spiritual growth, rather than pain and suffering, would be the outcome of future marital dissolutions.
Create the Relationship You Desire and Deserve!
No two relationships are alike. If you take a moment to tell me about yours, I can offer you solutions to help you make the changes you need now.
