I just have to share this with you!

For weeks, the "e" key on my computer stopped working. I put off getting it fixed, and when I finally focused on doing that - I was four days out of warranty and looking at a $900 repair.

I procrastinated getting the help I needed and instead overcompensated by cutting and pasting in "e's" when I typed (yes, it was THAT nutty and labor-intensive!)

Inspired to add more music to my life and remember to add more loving care for myself, I started to journal. Here's what I wrote, and here's what happened. It's a miracle! :-)

My Precious,

I see you, My Love. I truly do. And I’m so sorry I stay too busy to spend time with you.

I see how patiently you wait, as if you have no right to:
      ask for what you need.
      be angry that you are being marginalized and ignored.
      be seen and acknowledged for who you are and all you share

You are a Light, Sweetheart, a light in this world and a light in my heart.

The Power of Forgivness - We are all Super Heroes!

The Power of Forgiveness

I go see every Super Hero movie. The latest one was Wonder Woman, and I even took my seven year old granddaughter —before I realized it was PG! (Sorry, Maisie, for having to cover your eyes sometimes!)

The reason I wanted her to see it was because Wonder Woman stood for the Power of Love — which is a good message to share.

I wanted her to know we are all Super Heroes, with infinite strength to create what we want. And I think one of our best super-powers is the Power of Forgiveness.

inner child, self love, self care

Hi, Dear Ones, I just wanted to share the story I wrote for my six year old granddaughter — who didn't want to order her own hamburger last night and cried when I suggested she tell the waiter instead of tell me. After I wrote it, I realized it applies to me too. Sending love to all!

The Proud and "Perfect" Princess

Once upon a time lived a beautiful Princess who was very proud and wanted to be seen as perfect.

Feelings and Self Care

All of our Parts are trying to be helpful, no matter what their behavior. When we can love them for their intentions, they can transform and become valuable consultants and protectors. Love is always the answer- starting with Loving your SELF.

My Triumvirate of Tyrants
Seeks to bully me
As they jockey for position
To find which of these big three

Childhood. Adulthood. Motherhood. Fatherhood. Singlehood. A different hood of which we may not have wanted to be a part. Singlehood has an array of opportunities - and challenges. The opportunities for growth are unparalleled. The major challenge is seeing the opportunities.

Many of us think of singlehood as the way station en route to a relationship. It’s the bridge we cross to get to where we’re meant to be. It’s a limbo time of searching - but it’s often a search for “another,’ rather than a journey inward.

Welcome to the State of Limbo - that area in the travelogue in which you seem to run around in circles, or just state a sit-down strike and don’t move at all. It may be true that your vistas are limited and your opportunities for new experiences are narrowed. You might be willing to sacrifice the ability to move forward for the security—no matter how fleeting or illusory—of holding onto the relationship, marriage, person and/or dream. It’s your trip and you can plan it any way you want.

Once Transformed, No Need to Go Back. Butterfly Emerging.

May, l994

                                                Let  Me Help....                                                  


Take my hand and let me help you

            unlock the secrets

                        of your heart,

                                    your mind,

                                                your soul.

Let me help you

            explore your feelings

                        understand your thinking

                                    realize your motives


Create Passion by Sharing Peace and Partnership

You can learn how to communication with compassion — from your highest and best SELF. When there is a peaceful and respectful dialogue, it’s safe to put your walls down. You remove the filters through which you judged your partner. You no longer see him/her with blame or judgment or fear, and you realize there are no triggers to threaten your security with each other.

The Bridge between is in Compassionate Mediation®.

The world needs to be a safer place for marriage and divorce. Children should be shielded from the shrapnel of their parents’ animosity. Compassionate Mediation® offers a new paradigm for couples at a crossroads.

The more experience I have, the more compassion I have for the profound sadness and fear underneath my clients’ resentments or rage. No matter how far apart a couple can become emotionally and physically, their children are caught in the middle and continue to feel the strife.