Compassionate Mediation®

Compassionate Mediation® Program will help you now!

Compassionate Mediation® Program starts LIVE online in January.

Take the time RIGHT NOW, and get your spot (before they are gone), you can take a breath and
know that you’re on your wayto a healthier and happier relationship — whatever form it takes.

I know that there is pressure all around you to complete your “to-do” list at the end of the year.

I don’t want to put another “to-do” on the list.

I’d like to help you help yourself to feel less stress and more support.

Compassionate Mediation® Program will help you now!

Work with me in 2018 to truly create the relationship you desire!

For the next 48 hours, I am going to open the doors to the Compassionate Mediation® Program for a fraction of the cost it will be offered for in 2018.

I hope you will take advantage of this limited-time offer because I can only offer this rate to a small group of people. I’d love to have you with us.

Unhappy relatationships can be healed with Compassionate Mediation®.

If you are unhappy in your marriage, help is available.

You can go to counseling by yourself, or invite your spouse to join you for marital counseling. However, if one or both of you are so unhappy that you have secretly thought of – or openly discussed – the possibility of separating or ending the relationship, then Compassionate Mediation® is just what you need.

You can get your FREE Compassionate Mediation Toolkit now
and begin to create the relationship you desire and deserve!

You'll get immediate access to a Relationship Assessment, a Compassionate Communication Master Class Video Series and a FREE chapter of my award-winning book on Compassionate Mediation: How to Add Passion to Your Marriage or Compassion to Your Divorce.

Get your FREE TOOLKIT here and let the transformation begin!

The Power of Forgivness - We are all Super Heroes!

The Power of Forgiveness

I go see every Super Hero movie. The latest one was Wonder Woman, and I even took my seven year old granddaughter —before I realized it was PG! (Sorry, Maisie, for having to cover your eyes sometimes!)

The reason I wanted her to see it was because Wonder Woman stood for the Power of Love — which is a good message to share.

I wanted her to know we are all Super Heroes, with infinite strength to create what we want. And I think one of our best super-powers is the Power of Forgiveness.



The Power of Surrender is the subject of my LoveNote this month. Surrender is often the most empowering choice we can make. 

Self Care in Relationships.

My Will

My computer cord is at the office and I only have 9% battery. Kind of a metaphor for starting my EXQUISITE SELF CARE mode today.

If I don’t make the time to RECHARGE, I’m continually running on empty - with only fumes to take me where I want to go.

I will get my cord, go to the Botanic Gardens, enjoy nature, breathe, allow myself to BE. (Please join me on my guided meditation here.)

SELF in Mediation - IFS and SELF-leadership

SELF in Mediation

(from a Mediation Training in 1998)

My twenty-one year old daughter (who is now 40) recently called me at the end of her first year of her doctoral program in psychology to tell me she really didn’t want to be a psychologist. She wanted a profession in which there would be one right answer and not so many possibilities. Worried that she was going to switch to law school, I mentioned that even in law, you can argue two sides. And her response was, "Yes, but there are only two." And I thought to myself, she should never go into mediation.

On some existential level, I think she was trying to make sense out of this world. And the more she was learning, the more confusing it all seemed. And I thought to myself, the more confusing it seemed, the more she is learning about the world, and it’s in the acceptance of that confusion, we have the freedom to choose our version of reality. Kind of like mediation.

Stay or Go

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I hope you have the relationship you desire and deserve. Do you ever have challenges that feel difficult to overcome?

When you experience conflict with your partner or spouse, it is often not what you are saying but how you are saying it that can cause problems.